Safe People

Discernment is the key to recognizing and protecting one’s self from the unsafe people in the world.

It is your right and responsibility to make logical and systematic decisions as to whether or not any person is allowed into your world, and if so, to what degree. Unsafe people can be difficult to identify as they most likely have honed the skills needed to keep their shadow side hidden.

Evaluating another’s behavior does not mean to sit in judgment. Rather, it is a learned behavior in which we begin to listen to the small voice inside of us or to the visceral reaction when ‘the other’ enters our space.

By strengthening your instincts, and your ‘safe people meter,’ you allow yourself to make a choice to be with someone not because of their outward appearance or behaviors but by how you feel about yourself in their presence.